GOD NEVER INTENDED FOR WOMEN TO BE ALONE This letter is addressed to all women who think God wants them to be alone. This is one of the biggest lie mankind as ever started. Now before you get upset with me and think that I am throwing stones, let me just say, these are not my words, but the words of the Holy Scriptures. If we go to the front of the book where God brings Adam a helpmate, we will see it was God who said Adam needed a helper. I believe Adam was so complete he didn´t know he needed a helpmate. (Gen 2:18) Being Adam was so complete God never had to start creating again he took Eve from Adam and gave her the same creative powers as Adam had. Eve was a copy of Adam. And to tell the truth Adam was a very happy man with his partner. They knew nothing about good or evil. Theirs was a life of blissful fellowship with God. Now if we take time to ask questions, we will see God had a specific plan. God made sure that man would not be alone, and in doing so he also ensured woman she would not be alone. If God intended for man or woman to be alone, why did God bring Eve to Adam? Why didn´t God leave Eve in another place? When we you our heart we will see that God fully intended for man and woman to be together to help each other. When we look at people such as nuns, or the Pope, they look like perfect examples of men and women chosen by God to stay unmarried, well this is a lie. The Bible tells us that we should not allow anyone to forbid us to marry, or to stay away from certain meats. It calls such doctrines evil. (1Tim 4:2-3) I am so glad this is in the Bible because who am I, to say the Pope is wrong, or a nun is ungodly. But, when the word of God tells us it is wrong, to stay alone, we should accept it. And one we accept God word as being the guide to a happier life we will begin to see God perfect plan for man and woman. Let me just say I didn´t always have a good marriage. And to tell the truth, I once thought God wanted me to be alone. Every man that came alone was just temporary. After many hurtful relationships I decided it was better to be alone, cause it was the way God planned my life. I wasted so much time and energy trying to prove I could be alone. As long as I had someone to make love to me sometimes, I was fine. This was all a big lie. At nights when there was no one to hold me I was so lonely. Many nights I cried out to God to send me a man especially for me. Over day I pretended to be strong, but something inside was hurting. Most of my thoughts were on having someone to love me. When finally I found someone that was right for me, I didn´t know how to act. I had been on my own so long that it took a crowbar to ply my heart open. I remember so vividly how my husband would stand in middle of the front room refusing to be kicked out. His love and understanding helped me realize it was not God who wanted me to be alone, but ignorant men, who did not know how to treat a woman. When my husband first showed me it was God who put a woman and man together, I was shocked. Almost forty years of my life had passed before I knew it was ungodly to stay alone. It took forty years to understand being with someone means living according to God´s original plan for mankind. Taking our rightful dominion can never occur, until we have a Godly partner. No man can be happy without the love of a woman, and no woman can be happy without the love of a man. When we have our rightful partner, we will be able to spring from a solid foundation and become all God as put in us. I don´t want to preach as much as teach that it is truly God´s will for man and woman to be help mates. I am not saying you brothers, and sisters that are alone, should start looking for someone. I am saying brothers, and sisters, in Christ, please accept God has already given us everything and every person we need to be happy. It is time to open our hearts and find out what is going. It is time for us to understand the first chapter of Gen. We need to get personal with God and understand He only wants the best for mankind. Women search your insides, and you will see it was God who created us to be a wife, and helpmate. This was His original plan, and God never changed His plan. Please commit yourself to being open enough to allow this truth to sat you free. Remember God as a loving Father and it will be easy to see the life He created you for. No natural father would want to see his daughter struggling, so why would God the Father want to see you struggling and alone. The reason I know God wants a man and woman to be together is because I am so happy, after ten years of marriage. I know God allowed me to meet my husband, though I was married, by law, with someone else at the time. Yes the church people told me I could not call another man my husband while legally married to someone else. All I can say is, I was with the first man seven years, sex once, arguments every night, and living hell. But, when I met my present husband I knew he was mine When I decided it was not all right to be alone I asked God to guide me, I was thirty eight. When I accepted the fact that God would show me the man I was thirty nine, set in my ways, and in charge of my life. It took a man with the Love of God to stand all the punishment I offered. It took a seeking heart to understand my man was a gift from God. Today is your day, decide not to spend such a short life span alone.